Different Styles of Ceremonies

    There are as many styles of wedding ceremonies as there are people who marry! They are influenced
    by religions, regulations, nationalities, generations and of course, imagination. Add in changes down
    through the centuries and the unique touches overlayed along the way--  Now you begin to see the
    challenge faced by a wedding officiant. How can we possibly know and understand all the options?

    Well, part of the knowledge comes from training and years of experience. Another part can come from
    collecting books and texts of different cultures and beliefs-- a personal reference library.  But the most
    important part is a matter of listening to the words and feelings of brides and grooms. Sometimes,
    without even knowing, they guide us to a text or tradition that perfectly suits their desires. Other times,
    they share their dreams of a wedding, and we go from there to create a truly unique ceremony.  

    Whatever path is followed, a ceremony usually falls into one of four general groups-- (1) the traditional
    religious style, (2) a traditional but secular (non-religious) style, (3) a more contemporary religious
    style, or (4) a contemporary secular style. Within each group there may be thousands of variations in
    language or content.  And often, we craft a ceremony with elements from more than one group.

    We have provided here, a basic example from each group, just to provide food for thought...




















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Traditional Religious.  This is the sort of
ceremony most of us have heard at many
weddings. It uses time-honored language
from one or more of the major religions, and
was probably the sort of ceremony that
married your parents and grandparents
before them.
Traditional Secular.  This is may be the
group of greatest variety. It includes the
basic "civil ceremonies" performed by
judges and government officials, and
extends out to embrace more creative
approaches using poetry or other texts to
add style and art while remaining
non-religious in content.
Contemporary Religious.  These
ceremonies may be every bit as
religious as the more traditional
varieties, but they use modern
language and reflect current thinking,
much as some of the newer
translations of the Bible and other
religious texts attempt to express their
content in common language.
Contemporary Secular.  These are
the more open, new age ceremonies.
They often use modern poetry and
other texts, expressing contemporary
concepts of love and relationships, and
they may incorporate new ceremonial
formats actively involving the guests.